Common Ground: Why do/should people fear God?

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The question for August is "Why do/should people fear God?"  

Pastor Greg

Pastor Greg Ronning, the campus minister for Texas Lutheran University, details his perspective to this month's question below.  If you are interested in Pastor Greg's writing, CLICK HERE to link to his beautiful blog.

Fear and God

By:  Greg Ronning

In the Lutheran Baptismal liturgy there is a prayer that has always bothered me.  After baptizing the candidate we pray, “Pour out your Holy Spirit upon (name), the spirit of wisdom and understanding, the spirit of counsel and might, the spirit of knowledge and the fear of the Lord, the spirit of joy in your presence.”  It always seems strange to ask that the person just baptized and proclaimed “the beloved of God” should now live in some kind of fear of the Lord.  Of course the best way to understand this is to unpack the word fear, and begin to understand that by fear we actually mean respect.  Sometimes I wonder why we don’t just say what we mean, say respect instead of fear.  It seems like that would be a simple solution.

However this problem of fear and God is not just a language problem, I believe there is a larger problem, and it has to do with how we understand God.  As Marcus Borg says, “How we understand God matters!”

Over the years humanity has learned to personalize God as one way of connecting to and understanding God.  Yet God is not human, God is God!  And while at times it might be helpful to understand God as a kind and protective father, or a caring nurturing Mother, God is actually none of these things.  And if we get stuck in one of these, or any other human metaphor, as our only and primary way of understanding God it gets real complicated especially when you attach the word fear to this humanized God.  All of the sudden God is to be feared like an abusive Father or Mother, the bully down the street, or a stranger tempting us with candy.  Suddenly God becomes angry and distorted, and in very a personalized way.

Over the years I have met many people who live in fear of this God, in fear of a judge who is out to get them, in fear of a vengeful Christ who is coming back to destroy the world, in fear of God who looks and acts like a person who is angry and to be feared.

Yet there is another way of talking about God, a simple and truthful way, a way in which it is very hard to attach the word, the feelings, and the outcomes of fear.  The author of First John writes, “God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God, and God abides in them.” (1 John 4:16b)  Ultimately I believe God is love, a power, an energy, a positive force; and not some old man up in heaven looking down in judgment.  And this understanding of God sets me from fear.  

The most cited command in the bible is, “Be not afraid.”  The greatest commandment in the bible is, “Love one another as I have loved you.”  These words had their human moments in Jesus, the revelation of God’s love, the one who loved unconditionally even unto the cross, for God so loved the world.